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We are back on the blog today doing our favorite thing, featuring our gorgeous brides! Today on the blog we are spotlighting the lovely Katie. -- Katie and Blake were married on December 9th, 2022 at The English Manor in Ocean, New Jersey. Their beautiful winter wedding was perfectly complemented by the impressive manor.

Hi Future Brides! So you’re engaged to your dream partner, you book your dream venue… what’s next?! Finding your dream dress of course! After you’ve booked your bridal appointment there can be a lot of questions that linger. The dress buying process can sometimes be overwhelming, but of course your friends at The Curvy Bride, your favorite New Jersey bridal shop, have some helpful tips to ease your anxieties. The first thing you want to do to prepare for your bridal appointment is to think about your timeframe. Getting a dress could be a long process and you want to make sure that you have enough time to get the dress of your dreams. We recommend that you schedule your appointment at least a year out from your wedding date. This gives you ample time to order a dress and have any alterations made without getting too close to the wedding date, one less thing to stress about! We also recommend that you make your appointment with the intention to find your dream dress and say yes! If you aren’t ready to purchase a dress yet, you run the risk of inventory changing or dresses being discontinued by the time you’re ready to order. We wouldn’t want you to miss out! If you’re looking for a little more detail about when to order a dress, take a look at our blog post about timeframe here: https://www.curvybrides.com/how-far-in-advance-should-i-order-my-dress It's important to set a clear budget before you come in for your appointment. It gives your stylist somewhere to start when pulling dresses, and ensures that they are only selecting gowns within your price point. We never want our brides to fall in love with a gown above the price point they are comfortable with. Don’t forget to include extras when planning your budget... things like alterations, veil, jewelry, and shoes should be taken into account as well. Something we’re sure most brides are already doing before their appointment is gathering inspiration. We suggest perusing the inventory on our website and taking a screenshot of any of the stunning plus size wedding gowns that catch your eye. Your stylist can use these as a jumping off point when pulling dresses during your appointment. Consider things like neckline, silhouette, and fabric to help you narrow your search. While we can’t guarantee that every dress you see online will be in store, it still helps you and your stylist to find other options that you might like. Even if you aren’t sure what you’re looking for, that’s okay! Your bridal appointment is the time to explore all the different options available to you and narrow down to your favorite dream dress. You may be wondering what to wear to your bridal appointment! We suggest nude undergarments, and while underwear is required for hygiene purposes, a bra and shapewear is totally up to you. If you prefer to wear a bra, we would recommend a nude strapless bra, this way it doesn’t interfere with the neckline or color of any of the dresses. Most bridal gowns have cups in them, and brides often go braless in order to get a snug fit. There is also no need to bring any special shoes. You will be standing on a pedestal in order to get the full effect of the dress. Something to remember is that comfort is key, so however you will feel the most comfortable is how you should come to your appointment. If you’re interested, we have a list of some highly recommended shapewear on our blog: https://www.curvybrides.com/a-guide-to-shapewear-and-undergarments-for-your-wedding-day The last and most important tip is to bring a stellar group of people who help you feel your best. Invite those who will support you and know you, so they can help you find the dress of your dreams in a comfortable setting. If you are in the New Jersey area you can book your bridal appointment with us and see the incredible collection of plus size bridal gowns we have in stock. Head to our scheduling page for more information. We can’t wait to meet you!

We are back again on the blog today with another bridal spotlight! Today we are featuring a very special bride named LaChell. -- When LaChell and her husband Anthoney decided to get married, they dreamed of a destination wedding with family roots, so they chose Jamaica. The plans were made, LaChell got her dress from The Curvy Bride, and they were all set to have their dream destination wedding. Unfortunately COVID happened and changed all their plans. The couple decided instead to postpone Jamaica, “With so much uncertainty and older parents, we decided to move forward getting married in 2020 to make it official, while postponing our Jamaica wedding to the following year. Within 2 months, we planned a wedding at a local restaurant and worked with nearby vendors to celebrate our love.” The couple celebrated their official wedding on September 3rd, 2020 in North Brunswick, New Jersey and one year later on October 23rd, 2021 celebrated their anniversary with a huge party in Jamaica.

You already know that we at The Curvy Bride love to spotlight the wonderful brides that come through the doors of our bridal boutique in New Jersey! Today on the blog we are featuring Kaitlyn. -- Kaitlyn and her husband Lou were married on November 10th, 2022 at The Grand Marquis located in Old Bridge, New Jersey. The outstanding venue’s backdrop was no match for this beautiful couple.

There are so many options when it comes to your wedding, one of the most important ones being where to hold your wedding! Do you do something lowkey and local, or something vibrant and exotic? The decision can be daunting, and that’s why we’re here. We had the opportunity to ask one of our lovely brides, Danielle, about her destination wedding and we are happy to share her feedback with you! -- Danielle and Michael were married on February 11, 2023 at the Half Moon Resort in Montego Bay, Jamaica. Danielle wore a stunning dress from the Allure Romance collection. This dazzling dress features a sweetheart neckline, delicate lace, and off the shoulder straps.

Hello everyone and welcome to The Curvy Bride blog! We are a bridal boutique in New Jersey specializing exclusively in plus size bridal gowns. We LOVE to showcase all of our beautiful brides here on the blog. Today we are featuring the beautiful Priscilla! -- Priscilla and her husband Jonathan were married on January 22, 2022. Priscilla wore a stunning dress from Allure Bridals. The elegant silhouette is adorned with delicate lace and a simple off-the-shoulder sleeve. The classic and romantic feel of the dress is perfectly complemented by all the captivating locations that the couple took their photos.

At The Curvy Bride we absolutely love showcasing all of the beautiful brides that come visit us at our plus size wedding boutique in New Jersey. It’s such a privilege to be able to help brides find the dress of their dreams. Today on the blog we are featuring the wonderful Leanne. -- Leanne and her husband Devin were married on November 12th, 2022 at the beautiful Rockfield Manor in Bel Air, Maryland. This incredible and sprawling landscape was the perfect backdrop for this amazing couple to start their married life.

Dress shopping can be one of the most overwhelming things that a bride has to do. There are so many styles and colors to choose from and at every turn there is a choice to make. You want your wedding dress to be unique to you and show your personality, but also be on trend. This is hard to find in any dress, but especially for plus size bridal gowns. Thankfully your friends at The Curvy Bride are here to show you five current dress trends that can spice up any bridal look. _ _ _ Bishop Sleeves The first trend we’ve been seeing are bishop sleeves. If you’re not sure what those are, let us explain. Bishop sleeves are a long sleeve that is narrow at the top and fuller on the bottom, they are also gathered into a cuff at the wrist to create a puffed look. If you’re looking for a little bit of extra coverage but aren’t a fan of lace or don’t want a tight fit, these flowy light sleeves are perfect for you. This style would work for a bride that is looking for something a little more whimsical than a classic sleeve, something to blend romantic and bohemian styles. They are perfect for a fall or winter wedding.

Clothing size is a point of contention for a lot of women, especially if you are plus size. It’s hard enough to find regular plus size clothes in stores, let alone plus size bridal gowns. There are very few dedicated plus size bridal shops which makes it even harder. There are so many decisions to be made, from style, color, size, and even price. The whole process can be very overwhelming. But have no fear, because at The Curvy Bride we are here to help and give you all of the knowledge you need to pick the perfect dress for you! Today we are going to talk about bridal gown sizing. Something that is distressing to a lot of brides is the label size of wedding dresses. If you have never done research on this topic before, it can be very intense when it’s finally time to try on a dress. Something that is important to keep in mind through the whole dress buying process is that wedding dress sizing is very different from street-wear sizing. Wedding dresses tend to run small because most designers base their sizes on a European size chart, even if they are an American brand. This means that, depending on the style, your dress size could be between 2-4 sizes larger than your standard clothing size. For example, if you are a size 20 in pants, your bridal gown may be a size 24. But we always say not to worry about the number! Our goal is to help you find a gown that you feel beautiful in, regardless of the size on the tag! -- Below, we have answered some questions regarding sizing that we often get asked: "What if I end up losing weight before my wedding?"  If you think your weight might fluctuate before your wedding, bridal shops will always suggest that you buy for the size that you are today, as it is typically much easier for a dress to be taken in than it is to be let out. It is not recommended to order a smaller size dress, because if it is too snug when it arrives, you may have some trouble on your hands. You could risk the integrity of the dress just to make it fit. This could lead to a whole other host of problems, like having to find another dress last minute or having to find  "What if I am planning on getting weight loss surgery?" If you plan on losing a significant amount of weight with a weight loss surgery, for example, then it is in your best interest to wait a little bit longer to get your dress and then do alterations as close as possible to the wedding date. This way, you can choose a size accordingly and not have to "guess" on sizing. "What if my dress is too snug?" We suggest assessing this situation as soon as possible so we can get a plan in place. Some options are to order fabric to build out the dress, or build a corset in the back for additional room. Matching dress fabric can sometimes take months to arrive, but if we don't have time to order we can always try getting similar material from another company or using extra fabric we may have. We will always work with you alongside our seamstresses to find the best solution. -- Ladies, please note - there is no need to try to get yourself into a smaller size dress for your wedding! The size is only a number. You just want to feel beautiful and comfortable on your wedding day, and having dress stress is certainly not going to get you there. You don't need to change your body to fit into a gown; you want the gown to fit your body and feel comfortable on you! That's why we are here at The Curvy Bride in Manalapan, NJ - to help you find a dream dress that you love and feel good in! If you are in the market for a plus size wedding dress and want to shop at the first and finest plus size bridal shop in New Jersey, visit us online at www.CurvyBrides.com for more information or to book a private appointment. We can't wait to meet you!